Twenty-third Sunday in Ordinary Time – cycle B
Happy Sunday! Here is a quick thing you can do to help your family internalize the Word of God this week:
Before Mass (perhaps in the car on the way to church):
This week’s readings are like a big loud announcement to anyone who is poor or tired or feeling bad. Listen for this verse at Mass: Continue reading “Sunday Scripture for Kids”
I get a lot of eye rolling my direction at Mass. I think the word today is, “cringey”. That’s my singing. I don’t mean to embarrass my kids but, in a way, I can’t help it. Not to sing and praise God would be for the best part of me to die and the shell of a woman to live. But its not just Mass. Its anytime that you and I feel like we have something to contribute, something of value to say, to encourage. I’m not talking about life without a filter. Of course timing, sensitivity, appropriateness and likely impact are all incredibly important. But a lot of us have things inside about life, caution, beauty and love that are just bursting to come out. Should we be quiet?
For me, its easy to feel that my voice is not important or my words are empty or that they mean little to others. Other people can say things much better so I’ll just keep quiet. I was praying about this the other morning while I was outside. It was a beautiful morning. The birds were singing, wind blowing gently and the air was fragrant. As I paused to enjoy, I noticed a small bird repeating the same thing again and again – cauu, cauu, cauu, cauu. It barely was a song at all. But she was singing. All of creation was. I listened more closely. The orchestra of birds and bugs which made the magnanimous sound almost entirely seemed to be composed of simple tunes repeated over and over. Every bird and bug speaking made it better, humble as each one’s abilities were. Your voice too is part of the beauty. So, let’s tell our teenage daughters again that they are beautiful. Let’s talk again with our little ones about responsibility and eye contact. Let’s muse out loud about the sunset on walks with our friends. Let’s sing at Mass.
People have been telling me forever that my kids are well behaved at Mass. I’ll tell you the secret… It is really easy and takes no preparation. Most people aren’t willing to do it though. Are you ready?
Sit in the front pew. Not the second, not close to the front. The first row. Think about it. If you were 30 inches tall and you were standing behind a 6 foot man and a large lady, what would you see and think about at church? Rear ends! Even if you hold your kids up (which does help) they still are not seeing as high as you are and it is not practical to hold them the whole time. There are SO many distractions in a crowd. Up front what do you see? The candles, the priest, the bible, the bread and wine, the cross. Kids become engaged in the “play” of the Mass. Sitting up front helps even at a VERY young age- as soon as a baby has long range vision and continues through all of childhood. You can whisper in her ear about the candles, about Jesus, about the kids who are helping at Mass.
Of course, kids do make noise. Lots of it sometimes so, having a get-away plan is pretty necessary in the early ages. Sitting on the side helps.
Not only will your kids benefit but, once you start this as a habit, you will realize you your self are getting tons more out of Mass.